Adventure Interrupted

Some actions are impulsive, some are planned, but most are in between. And so it was with the planning of our great adventure.

Julie was the healthy one in our family—the marathon runner who came from a family where people lived into their three digits. I was more of a couch potato whose favorite pastime was sitting in a chair and learning something new. But all of that changed two and a half years ago.

Julie developed physical symptoms that didn’t abate despite medical treatment. Further tests revealed a serious medical condition that required surgical intervention and significant post-surgical treatment. Those post-surgical procedures led to physical consequences. And those physical consequences have resulted in limitations that Julie experiences to this day.

Despite the above, we have both gone on to live an everyday life, or at least a life that we call normal. However, there has been one area where we have faced a continued challenge: vacations.

You see, I’m only a partial couch potato. I’m also a closeted adventurer, and nothing pleases me more than exploring places and hiking in the wilderness. In 2018, I built an adventure van, which I have continuously modified with the help of my friend and expert builder, Tom. That vehicle gives me immense pleasure, and I have traveled all over the country with “Violet the adventure van.” Violet is the clubhouse that I wished I had as a kid, and the escape fantasy that I dreamed about when I was working 60+ hours a week. She isn’t a passing fancy, and she gives me as much pleasure today as when we built her out for camping.

My travel plans were on hold when Julie got sick, but after she recovered and wasn’t ready to camp, I went on a few adventures; some solo and others with my son. As time went on and Julie became stronger, we attempted some trips, but there always seemed to be a disaster that required a trip or two to the ER, ending the adventure.

If you have read any of my past blog posts, you know that both of us are problem solvers. It is what we do for a living. In this case, the solution was obvious. On our previous trips, there was an assumption of normalcy. In other words, it was assumed that since Julie had improved, we could conduct business as usual. We could return to our adventures as we had in the past. That was not the case. Limitations had to be accepted, plans had to be modified, and new procedures had to be implemented if we were ever going to have a successful trip. Plans were put into action.


Julie brought up the idea of an extended trip out west. She did this for a few reasons. Several of her friends had taken extended trips, and she wanted to experience one for herself. She also wanted to prove to herself that she could do it. Lastly, she felt that her medical issues had curtailed some of my retirement wishes, and she wanted to give me an extended trip. I was all for it, but there were complications, the biggest of which involved our very aged cat, Mercury.

We had adopted Mercury as an adult when she was between 2 and 4 years old. When we visited the adoption agency, the volunteers observed how our family interacted with the animals. They wondered if we would consider Mercury, a jet-black cat with a bit of a history. She came to the agency pregnant and was taken into a foster home to deliver and wean her kittens, which she did. However, before she could be neutered, she escaped, became pregnant again, and then returned to the foster home on her own to find a secure place to live. Mercury had a mind of her own, and she knew what she wanted. After her extended stay in foster care, she was ready for adoption, and the agency thought that we could be good candidates. We accepted the challenge.

In the early days, Mercury would escape our house only to return with gifts: birds, bunnies, and once a full-sized rabbit deposited in the middle of our living room. We understood her good intentions, but did everything in our power to discourage her actions. As time passed, she grew content to remain within the confines of our home.

She quickly became the center of attention. She was 100% cat in her actions, yet very sweet and affectionate. If we grabbed her and put her on our lap, she would quickly jump off. However, after a few minutes, she would return to us, as any lap sitting had to be her decision. She refused to be our pet; she was an equal member of the family.

Mercury liked to lie on my lap. However, she had to be the initiator.

Mercury always wanted to be around us. I would feed her at dinner time, but she would wait until we were eating before she started to eat. That was the polite thing to do. She would come to the front door to greet us when we would return home and when one of us would go out she would wait until they left, then run to my study window and stretch herself to her full height and watch as that person left, as if she was making sure that they were safe.

Her actions seemed to follow cat etiquette. She was always appropriate and proper. Because of this, we started to refer to her as Miss Cat, a title that fit her behavior.

As she aged, she stopped eating her dry food and lost a tremendous amount of weight. It dawned on me that it was too hard for her to chew the dry food, so I switched her to canned food. Initially, I followed the can’s feeding instructions, but eventually, I was giving her three cans a day, as her appetite was ferocious. Yet, she remained skinny. She was likely dealing with thyroid issues, but she was happy, interactive, and living her life. We decided to intervene only if she appeared to be in distress medically. We didn’t want to subject her to tests or procedures that would traumatize her, as she was now in her 20s.

Her breakfast meal was at 6 AM, and I was typically the one to give it to her. If I were a few minutes late, I would hear loud and insistent meowing at our bedroom door. If that didn’t work, she would start to bang on the door, and if that didn’t work, she somehow would open the door and sit right out of my reach, mewing loudly, “Get up, you lazy bum, it is time for my breakfast.” If I had the nerve to then go to the bathroom before feeding her, she would walk into the bathroom, look at me as if to say “pay attention,” and then walk out of the room in a “follow me” gesture. She would repeat this action, Lassie style, until I finally complied.

She would patiently wait at our bedroom door, and precisely at 6 AM, she would start to meow for her breakfast.

I remember getting into a debate with one of my brother’s college friends when I was around 9. He had taken an animal behavior class that taught him the animals did not think; they relied only on instinct. I remember telling him that all animals, including humans, rely on instinct, but that doesn’t mean they don’t also think. It was clear by observation that my childhood dog, Bowser, thought, planned, and problem-solved. Perhaps she wasn’t solving Calculus problems, but that didn’t mean she didn’t observe and apply that knowledge to modify her behavior to get her needs met. In those days, some people still believed that humans were completely different and unique from other mammals. Even as a child, I felt that we were on a continuum with other animals rather than in a completely separate category. Animals do think, and Miss Cat was a master at getting her needs met.

Now that she was 22, she required more care and attention. If we were to go away, we needed someone in the house to care for her. We would not board her out or have a stranger look after her. That would be too traumatic. This fact determined when we could go on vacation. The only time we could be assured that one of our kids would be available would be in June. We quickly moved to make the trip happen.


I transitioned into planning mode and spent a considerable amount of time preparing Violet, the adventure van. I had her serviced, washed her inside and out, and performed the numerous other tasks required, including recharging all of her USB devices and ensuring that her emergency satellite communication system was in working order. We sometimes find ourselves in remote areas without a cell phone connection, and I want a backup way to reach someone in an emergency. As usual, I bought too much food. So much that I couldn’t even fit it all into Violet’s kitchen storage. I suppose that’s part of my Eastern European heritage.

One of the many campsites that we stayed at during the trip.

Since we had little time between our decision and departure, it would be difficult for Julie’s patients as there would be no transition period. It was decided that she would offer a remote session every Friday for those who wanted them. Many did, so on those days we stayed at a hotel where she would have the comfort of a real desk and air conditioning. During the other days, we camped out in Violet and developed a rhythm that worked well to accommodate the two of us in Violet’s small space. We had to work as a team. She had to accept my need for order, and I had to acknowledge her love of the Coke Zero that filled Violet’s way back and our little fridge. It worked out.

We focused on what we could do, rather than what we couldn’t do. Yes, it would be impossible for Julie to go on a hike where she would be scrambling up boulders, but many hikes didn’t require that. In turn, I needed to be aware and observant of her behavior, as she often reached her limit but would continue onward anyway. I knew from the past that these could be peak times for falls and injuries. The emphasis was on how to maximize our experiences while remaining safe. It was not about pushing the limits; it was the opposite. Neither of us is 20, and we both have to accept that.

We found many hikes that Julie could navigate.

Additionally, Julie can only drive a modified car, whereas Violet is not. I would be responsible for 100% of the driving, covering a trip of approximately 4,000 miles. Lastly, Julie, like most, doesn’t like to be told what to do. However, I informed her that I would announce when we were approaching a rocky surface, incline, or other hazard, even if she was aware. I let her know that I wasn’t infantilizing her; instead, I would be a secondary warning system, as it was these situations in the past that often resulted in trips to the ER.

With the above accepted and in place, we set out for a 3-week adventure out west. Our trip was cut short, but it was still a complete success. We hiked in five national parks, climbed a sand dune, toured historic Santa Fe, explored the “UFO crash site” in Roswell, and visited the wonderful Garden of the Gods in Colorado Springs. With our main goals accomplished, we began our journey back to Chicago.

Visiting the International UFO Museum in Roswell, New Mexico.
Taking a break along a trail in Colorado.
Successfully climbing a dune at Great Sand Dunes National Park.
At the Four Corners Monument, where Arizona, New Mexico, Colorado, and Utah meet in one spot.

We planned to make several minor stops along the way. Our first was going to be to Lindsborg, Kansas, the most Swedish town in America. We made the trip to Salina, Kansas, our stopping off point, which is about 20 miles from Lindsborg, when we got a text message from our son. “Mercury has suddenly taken a turn for the worse. She isn’t eating and can’t walk; she doesn’t seem to be in any pain, but I think this is the end.” At 22 years, this wasn’t a shock.

My two daughters returned home to be with Mercury and to help support William. After some discussion, we all came to the conclusion that it was time to let Miss Cat pass with dignity. The kids arranged for a home vet visit as they comforted our little family member.

It was going to remain in triple digits that night, and we decided to stay at a hotel even though we had booked a campsite. We were feeling the trauma of our impending loss. That night, we were in constant communication with our kids as the process unfolded. By 8 PM, Miss Cat was gone. We all grieved and cried, but knew that she had a wonderful life. We loved her and she loved us. We will not forget her.

I wanted to return home to be with the kids, but I told Julie that I would continue to Lindsborg if she wanted that. She said, “No, let’s go home.” I decided to make the journey in one day and drove from 8:00 AM to 7:00 PM. Being home was the right thing to do.

I am incredibly proud of my kids and how they handled the situation. They came together, worked together, and problem-solved together. What more could a parent want?

Although we cut our trip short, it wasn’t because of a visit to the emergency room this time. The trip was a great success, and we have demonstrated that future trips are possible as long as we maintain our focus and recognize our limitations.

Although I’m sad about losing my good pal, Miss Cat, I’m happy that she went from a street cat to a home where she truly was queen—a place where she always had food, love, and attention. A place where she would live until she was 22. She gave us as much as we gave her, likely more. Rest in peace, Miss Cat. We love you.

Rest in peace, sweet Mercury. We miss you.

Spending $20 On This Item Could Save Your Life

I woke up this morning with a question in my head. I turned to my phone, did a Google search, and found the answer in under a second. I’m surrounded by information. My Smartphone and laptop can provide me with news, weather, music, and videos, and my Smart TV offers hundreds of channels to entertain and educate me.  Welcome to the modern era, where information is instantly available.  However, the modern era is fragile; all it takes is a power outage to have these conveniences disappear.

If the power outage is limited to my block, my cell phone will work until I need to charge it.  However, if the outage is more widespread, cell towers will also fail.  In these situations, I would be left without communication or information.  That could be a life-threatening situation. There have been recent disasters where knowing where emergency services were available could make the difference between life and death.  But, how do you know where they are if you can’t access information?

A while back, I read an article on the most significant inventions of the last century. More important than the Internet or even television was radio. Radio brought news, weather, education, music, and entertainment to the world, and could access rural areas rapidly and effectively.  

In 1941, when she was a toddler, my sister recalls hearing about the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor via our family’s radio. She was in the kitchen with my mother, who was ironing, and remembers that my mother uttered a word that she had never heard her say before. Radio instantly brought that information to her, faster than any newspaper could have.

On September 11, 2001, I was working at a VA hospital on a unit without a TV. We heard that there had been an attack on Federal buildings, so I logged onto the Internet. In those days, the internet was primitive and completely overwhelmed by increased traffic, making it impossible to access. Luckily, I had a portable radio in my desk drawer and was able to keep the staff updated.

I love to camp in Violet, my homemade adventure van.  I’m often boondocking in remote places that lack cell coverage.  I carry an emergency communication device, which is used for sending a distress call. Thankfully, I have never had to use it. However, I still need to know local weather conditions and what’s happening in the world.  Thankfully, I have never been in a place where I couldn’t receive a radio signal, so keeping informed has always been easy.  

Our country has recently faced significant disasters. Forest fires, hurricanes, and floods are becoming more commonplace. These events cause prolonged power outages and damage infrastructure, including power lines and cell towers.  Re-establishing these physical structures can take weeks or even months.  However, a single emergency radio transmitter can send information to thousands of people. What is the weather going to be?  Where is food and water being distributed? Medical care can be found where?  Only those who can receive its signal are privy to this critical information.

We all need basic emergency supplies, such as a flashlight, a first aid kit, and shelf-stable food. However, having a portable radio is equally essential. In today’s post, I’ll outline what you need and aim to demystify the ins and outs of making a radio purchase. Some portable radios can receive many different bands, so I’ll also discuss and rate their importance.

Why a portable radio?

A portable radio will provide immediate information when all other sources fail. Radios are very efficient and will run a long time on a set of batteries or a single charge. Many of them are simple to operate and have a zero learning curve. Let’s first examine what to look for in a radio, then I’ll discuss the importance of various radio bands.

In general, portable radios come in two sizes: pocket-size and table-size. Pocket-sized radios are similar to the “transistor radios” from the 1960s. Most have the AM and FM bands, although you can find some FM-only radios and others with multiple bands.  The reception and sound quality will generally be inferior to those of a table-sized radio.  However, it still should be adequate. Some “transistor-sized” radios can be had for $10.  Better ones will cost more.

This portable radio can be had for around $10. It runs off two AA batteries.

Mid-sized radios often provide better reception and sound quality. Their abilities and costs vary, but they may offer additional features. Some can receive many extra bands. You can find workable mid-sized radios for around $20, with others costing in the hundreds. 

This mid-sized radio uses D batteries. Its simple “analog” design allows for anyone to use it easily. Some portable radios use rechargeable batteries. They can be more convenient, but you have to have a way to recharge them when needed.

Classic portable radios typically use batteries, such as AA, C, or D. Some older radios may use the more difficult-to-find 9-volt battery.  The larger the battery, the longer the radio will play.  Some radios that use D-size batteries can play for hundreds of hours before their batteries need to be changed.  Batteries have the advantage of being easily replaceable.  If you have an extra set, you can continue to receive information when the first set is depleted.  However, you have to plan to have them on hand.  Batteries can last a long time in a radio. However, some radios will use a tiny amount of electricity even when off. This can eventually discharge a battery. A discharged battery can leak, destroying the electronics in a radio. Ensure that any radio is turned off when not in use.  If it is on but the volume is turned down, the batteries will drain and leak.

Many newer portable radios utilize internal rechargeable batteries that can be recharged via a USB port.  Their advantage is that you don’t have to remember to buy batteries.  However, you need to have a way to recharge them, and you should have a schedule where you recharge an unused radio every three months or so to ensure it is available in an emergency. The best option is to put a reminder on your phone’s calendar. Most don’t come with a charging brick, so you must use your phone’s charger to charge them. 

Almost all new radios are internally digital, built on a microchip design.  This is the case even if they look like an old-style analog set. Older analog radio models utilize components, such as transistors and capacitors, to enable the radio to function. 

Using a digital “radio on a chip” enables cost-effective production and reasonable, if not outstanding, performance. Microchip-powered radios often have decent FM performance, with AM reception ranging from satisfactory to acceptable for less expensive models. 

Old-style analog radios are more pleasant to use and can tune between broadcast frequencies, allowing for better reception of distant AM stations.  This is less of an issue when local stations are down due to a disaster. You can still find a few traditional analog portable radios based on older designs that have remained in production. 

I suggest buying a radio with a traditional analog look.  In other words a radio with a conventional tuning dial and knobs. Radios with many buttons and digital displays can be more capable and may offer additional features, but they have a learning curve. The best emergency radio is the one anyone in the family can easily use.

As stated above, the bigger the batteries, the longer the radio will play without needing to be recharged or replaced. However, even radios with AA-size batteries will play for a long time. You can conserve battery life by keeping the radio’s volume low and limiting playtime. However, a radio playing can be a good moral boost, so I would advise having backup batteries or a way to recharge a rechargeable radio. 

Many companies sell “do-all” emergency radios that can be charged via a crank and/or solar panel.  However, the practicality of charging a radio in this way is limited, and the charging components are poorly made.  I have heard stories of people crank charging their radios only to have the crank crack off in short order.  I believe that you are equally served with a traditional portable radio. 

This emergency radio may seem like a jack of all trades, but its components are cheap and could fail when you need them. However, such a radio is better than no radio.

Unknown Chinese brands now manufacture the majority of portable radios. I have tested several of them, and they were all adequate, with some outperforming others. You want a radio that has both AM and FM bands. In the next section, I’ll explain why, look at a variety of other radio bands, and describe their utility in an emergency. 

The radio bands

I’ll rate these using an A-F scale, with A being most important and F being the least important..

The FM band 

Importance level = A.  

Having a radio with an FM band is a must. FM is a local band, and some rural areas now only have an FM outlet..  An FM radio signal can travel around  30-60 miles. However, it is more realistic to receive an FM signal no further than around 20-30 miles. The more powerful the transmitter and the higher it is on the horizon, the further it will travel. A high-powered station with an antenna on a skyscraper will be heard at a greater distance than a low-powered station that serves a small community. Static and lightning crashes do not impact FM. Our town has a college FM station that would be put into service during an emergency.

The AM band (also called MW or Medium Wave band)

Importance level =  A.  

Having a radio with an AM band is a must.  Some radios are now sold only with FM, so avoid those.  You double your chance of hearing broadcasts if you have both AM and FM.  Additionally, AM signals travel much further than FM signals.  A strong AM station can be heard from around 100 miles away during the daytime.  At dusk and night, AM signals can travel much further, providing you with information even when a regional disaster destroys local infrastructure.  Clear-channel/high-powered stations can be heard for hundreds of miles at night. Using a decent radio from my Chicago location, I can listen to stations from New York City, Atlanta, St. Louis, New Orleans, Montreal, Denver, the Twin Cities, Boston, and more.  I can also receive stations from Wisconsin, Iowa, and Indiana during the daytime when I use a high-quality AM radio.  

Additionally, some communities, including the one I live in, have low-powered emergency AM radio stations that can provide vital information specific to that community during a crisis. These stations can run on backup power systems and don’t require giant antenna masts, so they can be used even when more traditional stations fail. 

Although digital, this CC radio is simple to operate. It offers fantastic AM/FM reception as well as weather band and the 2-meter ham band. However, it is around $200.
This radio offers a lot of functionality in a small package, but its complicated digital interface would be challenging for a non-radio person to use in an emergency.

Weather Radio band

Importance level = B

The National Weather Service operates over 1,000 low-power radio stations that cover more than 90% of the US population.  This service exists on radio frequencies above commercial FM broadcasts and requires a radio that has “weather band.”  NOAA radio broadcasts emergency alerts and detailed weather information, including information for aeronautical and maritime users.  Although very useful, the reports can be tedious, and most people can obtain all the basic weather information they need from commercial AM and FM broadcasts. You can find some radios, both expensive and inexpensive, that incorporate this band.

2-meter ham (amateur) radio

Importance level = B

This amateur radio service also resides above commercial FM and consists of local ham radio operators exchanging messages and emergency traffic. Ham radio serves as a backup communications network during emergencies, as hams relay information and help coordinate emergency services. If you listen to their chatter, you can gain an inside look at what’s going on behind the scenes. The downside is that you need more technical skills and specialized radio equipment to listen to these broadcasts. 

Note that the majority of emergency communications during a crisis is handled by first responders and government agencies who use their emergency frequencies, not ham operators, who mostly handle health and welfare traffic. Emergency responders often utilize “trunked” transmissions and digital/encrypted communications, which necessitate specialized and expensive equipment. 

Shortwave radio stations

Importance level = C

The large swatch of frequencies between medium wave (AM) and FM is called the shortwave or HF band and includes many different services. The two most pertinent services for disaster information are the long-range ham (amateur) radio frequencies and the international shortwave broadcast frequencies. You can find radios that cover some or all of the shortwave bands.  Inexpensive radios will pick up strong stations, but expensive and sophisticated radios will do a significantly better job.  Radios that include the shortwave band can range from $10 for a cheap pocket portable to thousands of dollars for a pro-level radio.

Amateur radio on shortwave is used for longer-distance communications, and hams use these frequencies to contact ham operators located further away, sometimes in other states or countries.  Most of the time, they broadcast using a transmission method called SSB (single-sideband), and a special shortwave radio is required to decode SSB into intelligible audio. These special radios will list “SSB” in their description. There may be some use to listening to these transmissions, but it is less important than other information sources.

This radio costs over $200, but it is an extremely capable device that can receive signals on multiple bands. Additionally, it is rechargeable. However, its digital interface is so complicated that I had to read the instructions several times just to understand all of its controls, and I hold an “Amateur Extra” radio license! Although capable this should not be your emergency radio unless you are willing to spend time with it beforehand to learn its many functions.
High-end radios can get expensive. This ham radio sells for almost $5000!
This radio offers reasonable reception, and its simple analog dial makes it easy to use.

There are segments on the shortwave spectrum specifically allocated for international broadcasters.  When I was a kid, I fixed an old shortwave radio that I found in our basement, and it was transformed by listening to English-language broadcasts from dozens of countries located all over the globe.  However, most of these stations have gone silent, as it is cheaper to stream their programming online.  

I recently used an inexpensive portable radio that had shortwave and did hear some stations in Spanish (South American countries still use shortwave for some local broadcasts).  I also heard around eight different stations in English.  However, the majority were religious in nature (fire and brimstone stuff), and one was right-wing political to the extreme.  These English language stations could be repurposed for emergency communications for the general population in a significant national emergency, as their signals can travel thousands of miles. There is limited utility to having a radio that can tune the shortwave band. 

Emergency responder frequencies

Importance level = C-

Although important, listening to these frequencies typically requires a specialized radio called a scanner.  These transmissions often shift and share frequencies and can be digitized, making them very difficult to eavesdrop on. It is unlikely that you will be able to receive these transmissions. 

Personal radio services

Importance level = C-

There are several personal radio services that ordinary citizens use for local communication.  These include the FRS, GMRS, and CB radio services.  To listen to these stations, you will need a radio capable of tuning in to those frequencies. In most cases, it is easiest to use a walkie-talkie or a dedicated radio designed explicitly for these transmissions. 

Listening is likely of marginal value, but having a set of these radios (called transceivers as they transmit and receive) may help you communicate with your group during emergencies. FRS, or Family Radio Service radios, are very inexpensive and easy to operate. They are short-range devices, typically having a range of 1 to 2 miles, depending on the terrain. Because they operate on a higher frequency than CB radios, they are compact and have small antennas, making them pocket-portable.

Many FRS walkie-talkies are inexpensive and can serve as a means for families to communicate over short distances when cell phones are unavailable.

GMRS radios require a license to operate, are more powerful than FRS radios, and can utilize repeaters on some of their channels to extend their transmitting range.  GMRS radio can have a range of 2-25 miles and even further if it is connected to a repeater. These radios cost more than FRS radios.

CB (Citizen Band) radio can still be heard if you are near an interstate, as truckers continue to use it. CB radio can be a valuable source of information, as truckers often discuss topics such as weather conditions, road closures, and other relevant information that may be helpful.  CB radio frequencies are located in the shortwave band, and some radios with shortwave capabilities can intercept these transmissions.  CB radio transmissions can travel up to 7 miles.  However, most mobile stations (ie, truckers) have a range of only a few miles.

CB radios are still popular among some truckers and can provide information about local situations or conditions.

Aeronautical band

Importance level = D

This is the band that planes use to contact ground-based stations.  Transmissions are typically brief, technical, and of limited use to the general public.

Long Wave 

Importance level = F

Longwave frequencies lie below medium wave (AM stations). At one time, there were longwave commercial radio stations, especially in Europe. However, only a few remain, and none are located in North America. You can hear some location beacons on longwave as well as time signal stations (stations that only broadcast the time for synchronisation and scientific use). Many cheap multi-band radios have longwave, which is pretty useless in the US. 

For as little as $10 and a couple of spare batteries, you can be better prepared for yourself and your family. If you don’t have a portable radio, buy one today.

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